I get it, we need to change our behavior into looking at the other person more positively and these 3 tips are very helpful to acquire that.

The thing is, I'm not very fond of the concept of positive illusions. It might be thought as:

1. Not accepting your partner, so you try to avoid the negative part (which can also change if you're uncomfortable with it and talk with your partner about it).

2. The illusion part, like when you're starting your dating life and everything looks like a rainbow. You're being blind to all these other things, and it's good for a while, but then, it may lead to an unhealthy relationship by never setting your feet truly in the ground.

Anyway, I agree with the three pieces of advice. Thanks for sharing!