Interesting, so if we try to avoid that kind of flirtation and even flee from it, it might be even more dangerous since the girl might take it as a challenge to get what she wants. It's tricky.

As you say, it takes a strong sense of self to understand what's happening and how to react to it appropriately.

We need more of this emotional education at school. Understand where the other person is coming from, what's happening internally, and then what would make you feel better in the long term.

A thought-provoking article, thanks for sharing!